Papyrus, I have a friend who makes me uncomfortable and a lot of my friends have cut him out of their lives, but I do genuinely care about him and have a real fear that he will do something drastic if I’m not there for him. What do I do? ((Sorry to the mun for posing such a shitty question))

papyrussuggestions:

I AM GLAD YOU CARE AND WORRY ABOUT YOUR FRIEND! YOU HAVE A BIG HEART!! BUT FRIENDSHIP TAKES MORE THAN THAT!

A GOOD FRIENDSHIP MEANS THAT BOTH PEOPLE’S LIVES ARE MADE BETTER WITH THE OTHER PERSON! IT MEANS THAT THEY TRUST EACH OTHER! AND THAT THEY BOTH TAKE CARE OF EACH OTHER, NOT JUST ONE PERSON DOING THE CARING!

IF YOU STAY AND TRY TO MAKE A FRIENDSHIP OUT OF JUST WORRYING FOR THIS PERSON… I AM WORRIED IT WILL HURT YOU! IT WOULD NOT BE GOOD FOR EITHER OF YOU TO STICK WITH A FRIENDSHIP THAT IS NOT WORKING!

BE CAREFUL OUT THERE!!

Okay I’m reblogging this because this is actually pretty important. When it comes to friendships or any other kind of relationship, both ends should be putting in efforts for the other when it comes to their happiness and mental well being. It’s understandable that one of the friends could be going through something tough and it isn’t easy for them to be happy, so one might have to put in more than the other, but if one of the people involved is putting in constant negativity, or both parties in fact, that isn’t a healthy relationship. No offense but sometimes it’s better to just cut those kinds of people out of your life than to rather just go through all of that negativity