If you are considering meeting up with someone online use this trick identify who really are who they claim to be:
1. Ask them to Skype
2. If they refuse or can’t for some reason ask for a current selfie
3. If they also refuse or can’t do not meet up with them
4. If they provide one ask them to send another with them holding 3 fingers up
5. If they refuse read step 3
6. If they provide a selfie where they show 3 fingers they are probably for real(If you’re still unconvinced try again with them drawing something in their hand)
I SAY THIS FOR YOUR OWN SAFETY
please spread this message as more and more young people are lured out into situations where they get kidnapped because they weren’t 100% sure the person they were talking to was real.ALSO IF YOU ARE UNDER THE AGE OF 18 MAKE SURE YOU STATE THE FOLLOWING:
“My [fill in trusted adult here] wants to come too. [pronoun] said we can do our own thing and [pronoun] will just sort of grab [pronoun] own table, but I wanted to let you know. Hey, if you have an adult coming too they could sit together!”
If hearing this freaks the other person out and they decline, TERMINATE ALL CONTACT. Do not pass go, do not collect $200, go directly to block. I’m 26 years old and if you tell me you’re coming with a friend or parent for your own safety, I will automatically say “hey, cool. Y’know, if you’re nervous we can just do Starbucks or something, I’m okay meeting in a busy place. That way your [adult/friend] can hang out, too, and they don’t have to pay for [admission, a movie ticket, whatever].” Your safety and comfort is important to me, and is important to any good person you meet online who wants to meet up IRL. In the early 2000s when I first started seeing online safety PSAs, this was a widely-spread tip. Use it.
And for the record, you can use this over the age of 18, too. I still won’t meet people from online except in public places. You never know–that person holding up three fingers and drawing a Pokemon on their palm could be some pervert’s child, niece, nephew, family friend’s kid who was encouraged to take some silly pictures. Always voice-verify and always meet in public, with another person if possible.
Be smart and stay safe, kiddos. Nina loves you.
This is all so important for everyone and especially my younger followers.
Anyone who is being upfront with who they are and who you can trust will do whatever they need to do to make you and your parents/guardians comfortable. Hence why I am constantly requesting to too-busy-dancing13 to FaceTime her mom…
Please please please listen to this. Not everyone out there can be trusted.
FUCKING SIGNAL BOOST!!
I’m in my 30s. My long-time internet friend is also in her 30s. She lives in Chicago area. When a work trip took me out that way, we arranged to meet up.
In a public place.
With members of her family there.
You’re never too old for this kind of basic safety stuff. Don’t be too casual about it. I knew her for 12 years before we met in person and I was absolutely not insulted that she still wanted that extra layer of protection.
Anyone who blows off your desire to be safe isn’t really your friend and isn’t safe to meet.
Tag: safety first
Repeat after me
Porn ain’t real life.
You can’t just shove your dick inside of somebody’s vagina.
FOREPLAY IS YOUR FRIEND!
And for some people, the more time you spend on foreplay, the better the sex session will be.
Hold up … why are y’all afraid of a little lube????
Lube is life???? Turn that coochie and booty into a slip and slide and you’ll orgasm in NO TIME ok??
Jot that down
Condoms are your friends.
And if you’re not fond of them, please make sure you are monogamous with your sexual partner (for infection control- meaning you will decrease the amount of STIs being spread). Get tested regularly especially if you are constantly having new sexual partners.
Just drink more water. Please.
And if you expect people to fucking shave for you. Expect them to have a little scarring or bumps because ingrown hairs are a bitch and there’s nothing many of us can do about it. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
Oh and your energy is everything.
If your energy is not compatible with the person you’re fucking with, the sex is not gonna be that great.
Omg please stop expecting people who have no to little experience with sex to be doing magic tricks with you.
It’s either you’re willing to teach or just don’t fuck with them.
I’m tired of hearing that “your dick/pussy is wack” BS.
Ok sorry that they don’t have sex with everyone they make eye contact with. Sheesh.
Yes to all of this!!!
I’m here for all of this except the Lube swap lune for natural oils and I’m here for it!
That’s one of the most dangerous advice ever.
No.
Natural oils can break down condoms.
No no no no no.
That’s super unsafe.
She is talking her shit rn 👏🏾👏🏾💯
Oil brakes down latex condoms especially, that’s why I don’t trust Trojan because the lube used is oil based. Water based lives are your best bet oils really should go in the vagina they are more so for anal. I’ve heard some advocation for PURE coconut oil as lube but with out condoms and like I said I wouldn’t put oil in the vagina
Skyn brand condoms are something I’d recommend I haven’t had any problems with them and they really feel like nothings there
Reblog cause this thread is wonderful.
Also do NOT be afraid to come forward to your partner and ask how they like something done, or how to do something period! It’s important to be comfortable with each other (as mentioned above) with everything if you want a real, genuine sexual experience. Laugh out loud while you fuck! Be goofy! Be yourself and enjoy yourself!
Also, fellow niggas, if you ain’t eatin you ain’t treatin..
Also, I’ve had an experience where I slept with a girl who was allergic to latex. So if you’re buying condoms, be sure it says non-latex. There are plenty of them, from Durex, Skyn, Trojan and even K-Y.
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